Looking for a Full Relationship Recovery?
If you are thinking that your ex partner is the right partner for you are always dreaming about them, you likely want start taking action in figuring out how to get your ex back. But it is very important to avoid relationship recovery mistakes that most people do. If you want to get your ex back then you need to complete plan for it. Don’t worry this plan is not difficult to follow nor it contain any dirty tips, but it does work like magic. Once you’ve given it a good read, you need to seriously decide if you’re going to try and get your ex to like you again.
If you don’t take action you will never get your ex back again, they’ll have too much time to move on, or think about everything that made the relationship go sour in the first place. That is why it is important to take action if you want the best results. Feeling lonely, stressful, desperate and heart-broken might start slowly destroying your confident level which will harm any future attempts to get another girlfriend or another boyfriend. If you want to get your ex back then you need to defeat the loneliness, and above all avoid any mistakes.
Before you get to work on getting your ex lover to like you again, here are 9 questions you need to ask yourself and answer HONESTLY.
Killer Mistakes in Relationship Recovery
Question 1: Do you seriously want to get your ex back?
This question maybe seem obvious to you, but it really isn’t. If you seriously want to get your ex back then you need to have a proper plan. Do you think your ex will come back by looking at what you are doing now? Are you binge watching netflix? Are you eating a tub of ice cream and crying over him? I’m sorry, but that sort of appearance isn’t going to help you here. Do you have any bad habits that you know annoyed your ex, like smoking perhaps? Did he think you had a bit too much weight? In such a case, if you’re not ready to change, your ex isn’t going to be happy and won’t be returning anytime soon. Which leads us to the next question
Question 2: Are you willing to change for your ex partner?
Are you willing to change yourself because your ex partner hates one of your bad behaviors? In general, it is not good to change yourself for someone else. If you are planning to change yourself because your ex partner hates behaviors then you need to make sure you’ll be happy with the change yourself. It’s fine if you want to change for a relationship, it’s a main tenant of compromise, but make sure you benefit from the change as much as your partner does.
Do you think you are not suitable for your ex? Or do you think you don’t deserve your ex? If you are asking these questions from yourself then it means you have low confidence. An easy way to speed up relationship recovery is to realize your confidence is low, and do whatever it takes to increase it. If it’s worse than low confidence, and you are suffering from anxiety attacks, depression and stress because of the breakup then you will also want to consult a doctor for your own sake.
Question 4: Are you feeling desperate?
After a breakup, you’ve found that you are the one that is hurting the most; you are the one most desperate to get your ex back. We can’t help our feelings. If you’re feeling this needy and dependent on your ex, just make sure not to reveal these emotions. They will have you looking too clingy and desperate to ever hope to reunite with your partner. Acting as unaffected as possible by the split is a good way to get your ex back.
Question 5: Are you ready for action?
Like I said before, if you’re serious about getting your ex back, you need to be prepared to take some serious Action. Action is more powerful than talking or reading, even when you’re reading an excellent blog like this one. Thinking where to start? Start working on yourself. Start by updating yourself, lose weight, learn about latest fashion and get new friends. Once you start changing yourself your ex definitely start noticing you once again.
Question 6: Are you motivating yourself?
Go on pinterest, start looking at motivational quotes. Look at yourself in the mirror and think about what you want to realistically change about yourself. Motivating yourself is related to increasing your confident level. The more confidence you have the more attractive you are. Especially when this confidence is coming from being comfortable in your own skin. People always want their partner to be confident and if you keep on having low self-esteem you’re just asking to be taken advantage of.
Question 7: Are you feeling panic?
Are you feeling panic and thinking to call your ex? The absolute last thing you want to do is blow up your exes phone, especially with double or triple texts. Even worse if the text messages aren’t even good ones. You’re not thinking rationally, so put the phone down and find something to distract yourself with. Consider yoga or meditation to keep yourself nice and calm.
Question 8: Are you drinking alcohol to forget the pain of breakup?
Many people start drinking alcohol thinking alcohol gives them relief from pain of breakup. This is just going to delay your steps towards a relationship recovery if that’s the path you’re heading down. And not to mention the physical and mental damage excessive drinking does to your body. If you are making this mistake then you need to stop immediately.
Question 9: Are you active?
Ask yourself are you active in your daily life? Are you active to start taking action? It is very important to get active to help improve both your physical and mental state and improve the success chances of your plan to get your ex back. This is very important aspect of your life and should be kept up regardless of your relationship status.
Get your Ex to like you again:
These are 9 deadly seriously how to get your ex back questions that most people fail to consider seriously. If you’re really ready to take the steps towards a full relationship recovery, you need to ask these questions of yourself to be absolutely certain. Once you’ve decided, you can begin to move towards a full fixed relationship with your ex.
That’s all for now, but follow this blog regularly, I’ll be updating with even more tips and tricks to help improve your relationships (or lack of) for both sexes.
Remember, you are not alone in wanting to get your ex back. Breakups happens in every relationship, and not all of them are mutual. Some get their partners back and some do not. The main difference between the successes and failures is strategy that they follow.