The Secrets of What To Text To a Girl

Overarching Rules To Texting Girls You Like:

Rule One.

Do not use proper grammar. Optionally, do not use proper spelling.

I know what you’re thinking, it sounds ridiculous. But for whatever reason, texting in proper sentences is not perceived as sexy to women. Worse, it’s perceived as try-hard and nerdy. Unless you’re writing for a relationship help site to help guys seduce women and vice-versa, you’re going to instead be sending texts like this

• hey
• wassup
• wyd (what are you doing)

There are two reasons for doing this:

One, she perceives it as you not going out of your way to correct your grammar and spelling for her. You don’t have time for all that. Either you’re a busy man, or she has not earned enough of your attention to deserve you meticulously capitalizing and punctuating. This is a good thing to play to your advantage.

Two, doing this will naturally make your text messages shorter, which is good, and brings us to rule two of texting a girl you like

Rule Two

K.I.S.S.

Keep It Simple Stupid

The longer your text messages, the less points you’ll get with the girl. You’re going to want to keep it pretty short, and you also do not want to fall into being one of the many other guy she texts just for a fun conversation. When a girl gives you her number, it might be a sign that she’s interested. You need to capitalize on that interest and set up a date.

First message to a girl you like:

“hey”

I’m serious. Keep it simple.

The Last Rule To Obey When Texting A Girl You Like

• Be yourself

And by that, I don’t mean be the you that isn’t quite sure how to talk to girls and is likely to end up friend zoned. Instead, I mean only follow advice/ideas on what to text if they mesh with your personality, and the persona that she believes she gave her number out to. Unfortunately, we haven’t gotten the GetExBackGuru date-4-you service up yet (it’s hard to set up a service that goes on dates and tells you exactly what to say secretly).

At the end of any seduction through texting, it’s going to be you and her in person to close the deal.

Questions to ask a girl while texting

What are you wearing?

This one is best done if you have the personality to pull it off in a half-joking half-serious manner. You don’t want to bring up a potentially sexual topic and then shoot it down yourself as though you are uninterested, that’s quick way into the friend zone. At the same time, you don’t want to use a line like this because it’s corny and too direct to start sexting with. So if you have the personality to pull it off as somewhere in the middle, use it. Because she’ll go crazy wondering if you meant it or not.

What are you doing/What are you doing this weekend?

Don’t ask these questions directly like that unless you’re pretty sure the girl is begging for you to ask her out (in which case it wouldn’t matter, and you want to be as direct as possible). Instead, make it fun.

You: “hey i know what ur doing for me this weekend”

Her: “lol what”

You: “cooking me dinner before you take me to the movies”

Her: “lol oh really?”

Banter begins.

You want to make sure that whatever you send to her, you keep it slightly sexual/romantic to make her at least suspect that you’re interested. And make your move soon. Again, too much beating around the bush and she’ll assume you’re not confident in your abilities or performance.

Note there’s not much else on this list of things to text girls. That’s because, you should be bantering with her based off personal experiences to keep the mood light, have inside jokes, and of course, some sexual innuendo. There’s only so much a script on the internet will do for your texting, and it won’t help you on a date, so I’m not going to provide that crutch for you. Instead, take this opportunity to follow your own personal script between you two, but again, eventually you need to shoot for a date. Within a week of getting her number you should be asking her out.

Who Else Wants To Get Out Of The Friend Zone?

Screw The Friend Zone

The Friend Zone is a dreaded area for an individual to be in. It’s when you have feelings for someone, and for whatever reason they like you enough to be really close to you. Enough to share personal stories and advice with you, to spend copious amounts of time with you, and to build a deep emotional connection with you. But for whatever reason, they refuse to pull the trigger on forming a relationship with you. In some cases, you even have to deal with them dating other people, then kindly informing you about it. The effect this can have on your confidence is massive.

You begin to wonder why you’re not good enough.

You might compare yourself to their preferred object of desire.

It can lead to resentment- of yourself or of them.

So this is our definitive guide to the friend zone: The definition of friend zone, a quiz/test you can take to answer the question “am I in the friend zone”, and a how-to guide on how to escape it.

Friend Zone Quiz: Are you in it?

1. Do you have feelings for your friend?

2. Does he or she know about it?

3. If yes, did you get a “let’s just be friends”, or did they not even directly acknowledge the admission?

3. If no, are you for some reason afraid to share your feelings with them despite your apparent closeness?

4. Does the person have a significant other? Or a crush on somebody else (if you’re not sure, assume a person that they talk about a suspicious amount is their object of desire).

If you said yes to at least two of these, you are definitely in the friend zone. But don’t worry, the first step is realizing it.

How to Avoid the Friend Zone

Before we explain exactly how one can break out of the friend zone, it’s important that you learn how you got into this situation in the first place. If we tell you how to escape and you learn nothing from it, you might just end up right back where you started a few months down the road with another person. This will help you learn from your mistakes:

How Guys Avoid The Friend Zone:

Be Direct. The person you’re interested in should be aware that you are not asexual from the get-go, or as soon as possible. Note, this does not mean hitting her with bad pick up lines and awkward flirting. This means just make it known, as subtly as possible, that you have a sex drive and are not afraid to use it. This can be accomplished by the occasional compliment to her or to passerby’s “hey, that girl was kind of cute”. Don’t refrain from making moves on her and only making moves on other girls. Flirt with both.

Be Desired. This one is harder to make real, but easy to fake. Nobody wants a person that has no other options. If someone starts flirting with you in front of your crush, entertain it for a bit. Don’t overshoot and flat out try to make your crush jealous, just flirt back with the person and play along with them. Banter with them a bit. Banter is sexy, and there’s no point in letting your social skills go to waste by putting your eggs all in one basket.

Be Skilled. I’m not just talking about in the bedroom, I also mean at doing something. Have a passion outside of seducing your object of desire. Do good in school, be a good skateboarder, follow your hobby of photography, almost anything works (not video games unless she’s a gamer girl).

Be Healthy. There’s no reason to not work out in this day and age, diabetes and heart disease and running rampant, everyone on Instagram is stressing about missing leg days, and you’re avoiding the gym because…what? Girls like guys who are fit, guys like guys who are fit, get fit. It will help with your physical attractiveness, and even once again help improve your bedroom skills (after all, this is where you’re trying to end up with your crush. Worst thing you can do is have a disappointing case of ED because you’re blood flow is impeded by McDonald’s).

Be Scarce. Don’t allow your object to spend time talking to you about the other people that they are attracted to in their life. If they bring that sort of stuff up, give it a fleeting comment and then change subject. Indulging in it any longer puts you at risk of sliding down the slippery slope of becoming an emotional pillow, AKA being friend zoned.

Be Stylish.  Wear clothes that fit, and get them tailored if you can afford them. Have at least one suit that you can wear when occasion permits (chick dig suits). If you have muscles, don’t be afraid to wear clothing that slightly shows them off every now and then. Not all the time though.

How Girls Avoid The Friend Zone:

Be Stylish. Yup, it makes both lists. I don’t mean stay caught up on the latest designs the Kardashians are rocking. I mean wear clothing that fits you and is flattering to the body you were blessed with.

Be Healthy. Everyone has their own personal opinion on what a healthy weight is, and frankly there’s more than enough proof that there’s a guy for every body type. But whatever shape you’re in now, if you have room to improve and know exactly what steps you can take to do it, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by taking the steps. There are guys for every body type, but aim for the body type that the guys YOU like are going for.

Be Confident. Most people aren’t outwardly admitting attraction for girls who are overconfident, but they get more love than girls who are entirely too timid and quiet. It’s easy to end up in the friend zone as a girl if a guy perceives that you are too timid to even enjoy sex, or that you don’t like him at all because you’re too shy with him. Find a good balance of confidence, just enough to enjoy being who you are naturally, and then get some confidence in your bedroom performance.

Be Intelligent. Men are stupid. There’s a chance you might think you’re in the friend zone with a guy because he’s not making moves, and he’s thinking the exact same and too afraid to. Try and set up an isolated situation where it is just the two of you alone. This should give him a chance to make a move. If he doesn’t go for the subtle signs, chances are he’s not worth your time anyway.

Escaping The Friend Zone

Now you know how to not be friend zoned ever again. Time to see if you can escape the friend zone with your current crush, or if it’s time to cut your losses.

Warning: Some of your relationships may not survive this escape attempt. But you will be infinitely better off.

This will work for guys and girls.

Step 1. Verify you are in the friend zone.

This is accomplished by asking out your object of desire. Shoot for a specifically one-on-one type date, preferably one you haven’t already been on and experienced in a platonic fashion, and also preferably one that has sexual connotations. Netflix at your house, for example. If they agree, you might be on your way to a good end, unless they flake or are oblivious to your intentions. If they decline but give a good reason or reschedule, set up another date a week later. If they decline and give no good reason, you are in the friend zone for sure. Skip down to step 4.

Step 2. Prepare For The Date

 Once the date is set up, make sure you are looking at your best. You’re trying to lock down your crush here. Don’t show up to a Netflix date at her dorm wearing a suit obviously, just be do little things like having your clothes ironed and being well-groomed. And I mean well-groomed ALL OVER if you catch my drift. Pubes.

Step 3. The Date

On the date, make your move. Nothing cheesy, no yawn accompanied by putting your arm around them. Girls, you can take this time muster up the confidence, then try and tell your crush how you’ve felt about them for a while, then follow it up with a kiss and gauge their reaction. Guys, at this point you’ve likely been leaning towards inaction too much for words to be effective, it’s best to go in for the kiss after you test for her reaction to kino, flirting, and escalation.

Step 4. Resolution

Congratulations. It’s over. At this point, either you’ve developed something more with your crush and have successfully broken out of the friend zone, or you haven’t, but now have the closure of knowing with 100% certainty that your crush does not like you like you like them. No one can control their own friends. The best thing you can do now is go No Contact.

Step 5. No Contact

The harsh truth is that for whatever reason, your crush doesn’t think you’re good enough for them to date you. Regardless of how good of a person they are, this is about as personal as personal gets. So, you take the time to stop talking to them (and I mean straight stop talking to them, don’t announce to them exactly why, just sort of go off radar) and focus on improving yourself. Those steps I listed to avoid the friend zone above? Take time to develop yourself until that list is what you are doing/who you are naturally. After a few weeks, your crush is likely going to try and rekindle the friendship. If you can personally assess yourself and think you’re ready, accept their offer for a meetup, and go in with a new mentality.

This time, it’s going to be now or never. You or nothing. You’ll take nothing less than the relationship you know you deserve with them, and if they are not willing to give you that you will be willing to move on and find someone who will.

Getting over someone won’t be easy, but you’ll need to have a mindset that you’re resigned to taking the steps necessary if you have to. It’ll enable you to go full on in your final effort to form a relationship with your crush.

And that, Ladies and Gentlemen, is how you break out of the friend zone.

How To Reverse ED Using Natural Cures

The Best Methods To Cure Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile Dysfunction is a plague on men around the world. And there are a LOT of methods that exist that people can try to cure it. Common methods for curing ed include kegels, reverse kegels, male enhancement pills, following guides, and even buying various technologies and products. We’re going to guide you through the best options and provide a review for how effective they all are, so you can make an informed choice on how you will deal with your male dysfunction. After reading this, you will know exactly which treatment you want to use to deal with your impotency.

Top 4 Natural Treatments for ED

This section is for natural remedies of Erectile Dysfunction, that are likely to provide you with long lasting results but will require time and patience. Most people are going to be in more time-sensitive situations than these will allow.

1. Diet

This is actually one of the main points that the Erectile Dysfunction Protocol focuses on. Your eating pattern and diet can cause blood flow in your arteries to be restricted, which would impact blood flow to and inside of your penis. A quick fix is to change around your diet by adding more veggies and fruit and less carbohydrates. Men who indulge in a mediterranean diet are noted to have significantly less reported cases of ED occuring in their lifespan. This diet essentially places heavy emphasis on fruits and veggies, WHOLE grains, and heart-healthy fats like olive oil and nuts, as opposed to steaks and hamburgers (some red meat can and should be enjoyed, but not too much).

Note: Alcohol – moderate it. Heavy drinking has been linked tos ignificant liver and nerve damage, and alcohol of any amount does have an impact on your hormone levels. Alcohol is known to be high in estrogen and can lower your testosterone, so unless you have testosterone to spare you’ll want to make sure you leave the drinking for once-in-a-while fun occasions. Over consumption of alcohol and ed go hand-in-hand.

And as we all know, Diet tends to go hand in hand with…

2. Exercise

Achieving and maintaining a healthy weight through exercise will allow you to avoid nerve damage related with being overweight, as well as help reduce the chance that you develop type 2 diabetes. Type 2 diabetes itself is also linked to erectile dysfunction in men, and can lead to diabetic neuropathy which can affect nerves in the penis. High blood pressure and high cholesterol are similarly damaging, with their being a high probability any of these will impact your blood vessels that are supplying blood to your penis. To avoid many diseases that can cause or worsen ED, as well as bring other health issues with them, developing a decent exercise program will be critical.

Do not get caught up in the overthinking that often comes with this phase. A “good” workout routine is any routine that you can stick with. Find one that meshes with you and utilize it. Your increased heart rate as a result of regular exercise will also help to improve your symptoms of ED, as blood flow to the penis will be increased leading you to stronger erections.

3. Eliminate Stress

This step is going to be easier for some than others, but stress does have a serious impact on your health overall and your hormone levels and blood vessels directly. Stress lowers testosterone, and causes your blood vessels to contract which can damage them. Whatever you have to do to help yourself be less stressed, do it if it isn’t too unproductive. Consider beginning yoga or meditation, or if you can moderate yourself play video games to blow off some steam every now and then.

4. Stop Smoking

If you’re a smoker, you should know that cigarettes are infamous for their damage to blood vessels. They will have the effect of curtailing blood flow to your penis, and the nicotine itself forces blood vessels to contract which will also impact blood flow. Quitting smoking is a different beast on it’s own, but you should start looking into guides to stop smoking if you’re serious about curing ED naturally.

The ED Freedom

The ED Freedom is one of the top treatments for ED, and has been critically acclaimed since its release. We’ve even reviewed it on our site before to check it out, and it does indeed have serious merit. It focuses on guiding men towards fixing their ED through primarily diet and exercise based methods, which, as listed above, fall under the “all natural treatment” category. This means that they’ll inherently be longer lasting than many temporary treatments, pills, or injections one might invest in.

Kegel Exercises for Erectile Dysfunction

Kegels have been well documented (scientifically as well as through anecdotes) to have a strong impact on certain instances of ED. Particularly younger men, from teens to early twenties, have been noted to see significant reduction in their symptoms of ED after starting routine kegel exercises. The results are usually able to be measured after just a few weeks of good workouts, and they also have the added bonus of improving your sex life overall with your new found ability to delay ejaculation as well as having stronger erections. However, they are not a panacea for erectile dysfunction. Kegels are best utilized by combing them with some of the other best ed treatments included on this page to see the best results when trying to improve your sex life.

Can ED be cured with Male Enhancement Pills?

There is some evidence that they are effective, but we advise that you proceed with caution. Normally we would provide a list of the best ed pills, but overall the pills have too much risk involved with them to be worth the reward. Consider these as a last resort, and focus on all of the other methods we’ve provided before you tackle these. Overall, I think you’ll be happy you did in the end.

Conclusion:

First off, don’t think this is a static list. As we continue to look for more method to solve this growing problem, we’ll add more methods and guides to help people figure out which ed treatments to put their stock in. For now, this list is more than enough for one to get started on fixing their erectile dysfunction immediately. Just make sure that you give the natural methods a good chance before you turn to relying on ed pills or other various devices.